I have this beautiful relationship with this amazing man, he loves me, cares for me, never lets me worry about anything, he protects me, he provides for me, I MEAN HE IS THE BEST MAN IN THE IN THE WORLD!
With all of his great qualities, I still have this secret relationship, I must be stupid right, really stupid! How can cheat on this amazing MAN with my secret LOVER, SOMEONE PLEASE SLAP ME NOW! Right let me clear things up a bit before people start thinking otherwise. The great MAN I speak about is GOD, and my secret lover FEAR. For someone who strongly believes in GOD and all his promises for my life, I still find myself entangled in the spirit of fear. I was having a conversion with one my dear friends (you know who you are), and we were talking about my passions in life and how I was so afraid to go pursue them. I couldn’t give a proper answer, as to why I had this FEAR in me, and it dawned on me that FEAR is simply a FACADE the devil puts in place to stop us from truly seeing and accomplishing our GREATNESS. For anyone in this position, I have put together a few points to living a FEARLESS and FULFILLED life; If it scares then you must do it- Fear is and always will be present throughout our lives. You can choose to be brave, but that to me is not being fearless. You have to be open about your fears, expose them, and become vulnerable to your fears even if you have everyone watching you. The best to deal with fear and becoming brave, is by channelling your fears, don’t let them guide you, instead let them drive you to create the change you want to see in your life. “Positive thinking isn't about expecting the best to happen every time, but accepting that whatever happens is the best for the moment” Avoid overanalyzing- We all do this when fear creeps in, from relationships to career to our finances. We just seem to dwell and dwell on stupid things, over thinking, causing ourselves unnecessary heart ache (I AM SO GUILTY OF THIS). For me, overanalyzing gives me comfort, but it really doesn't help the situation or take away the fear. To avoid overanalyzing, be more outspoken, find that person you trust and speak to them about your fears. If you are believer in Christ, have a serious quiet time with God, speak to him about your fears and watch how he turns things around. Finally listen very closely to your intuition, it is mostly always right. “Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be and how you want to feel. Energies are contagious” Fear is good- You cannot be afraid to fail for the sake of failing. The fear of failure or of failure itself is an opportunity to learn, grow and avoid making the same mistakes. So seize every opportunity and make the most of your life, let that fear be a driving force in your life for to succeed and be great. “I used to be afraid of failing at something that really mattered to me but now I'm more afraid of succeeding at things that don’t matter”- Bob Goff There is goes, MY SECRET AFFAIR WITH FEAR! Denim-Topshop/ White Jeans & Heels- ASOS Thanks for reading, Until Next Time. Don'y forget to follow me on instagram, facebook, and bloglovin - ChiChi Caramel P.s- for if anyone wants my natural hair routine, I am very happy to do a post/video for you guys. My routine is pretty easy and simple. Stay Blessed.
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emmanuella
5/4/2015 07:48:23 am
These are exactly the mantras i live by. Well said Sylvia, especially the part about acknowledging the fears. Because we can't protect ourselves from sadness with blocking out happiness too.
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Maryjane
5/4/2015 09:30:48 am
It's just what I needed to see. It doesn't hurt to fail.
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Patience
5/4/2015 10:42:36 am
a good read. Keep it up
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