Comparison is a secret killer that we should seriously be aware of. Comparison kills us. Not in a quick, bullet to the heart kind of way either. Death by comparison comes slowly. A little prick here as we notice her perfect relationship…a little stab there as we observe his recent change in status…until our strength to live joyfully has been drained. Perhaps I’m being a little melodramatic (Woohoo, my friends know me as Miss Dramatic). But, I truly believe it’s time for us to take the toxicity of comparison seriously. Below are my reasons why this evil thing called “Comaparison” is the secret killer of men: 1. Comparison keeps us from contentment- My dear Instagram, I scroll through you and, within seconds, I find one thousand reasons to be discontent with what I own, how I look, and my inability to simultaneously have my own clothing line and home decor while working on having the best body in town. Ridiculous, right? So why do we do it? Because our hearts are bent toward comparison. They instinctively ask, “Am I enough?” and “Should I being doing better?” 2. Comparison keeps our focus misplaced. 3. Comparison traps us on the treadmill of discontent. 4. Comparison keeps us from friendship- Have you ever had a friend whom you felt like was always competing with you? Fun, isn’t it? You get a new hair cut. She suddenly does the same. The competition doesn’t strengthen the relationship though, does it? Instead, the pressure of out-pacing each other (or even trying to avoid her mimicking your ever move) suffocates any chance of true relationship. Real friendship can only occur when we are free to be vulnerable and authentic. Competition says: Never let your guard down; don’t let the enemy see you sweat. Friendship says: Bring me your weakness and I will stand with you to help you be stronger. 5. Comparison keeps us in chains- When we choose to measure ourselves against those around us instead of against Christ’s standards; we put the chains back on. We say, “That’s nice, Jesus, that you want to give me life and all. But, I’m pretty sure I’d be happier if I could just have her abs.” We believe that true life is not found in Him but in having the perfect body, or skin, or looking like a Victoria’s Secret model. It is a big lie. Free yourself from comparison’s bondage today by confessing to the Saviour that you've been deceived. In John 14:6 Jesus says, “I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the father but by me.” God Please Bless Our World, Please Help Those In Need, Please Remove All Evil! We Ask For Healing and Peace Amen! Shirt & Jeans- Topshop | Heels - Zara
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Chichi
11/27/2015 11:13:34 pm
Thanks xx
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Ogechi Nwoke
11/18/2015 09:23:37 am
Wowowowowowo!!!! ......Real friendship can only occur when we are free to be vulnerable and authentic. Competition says: Never let your guard down, don't let the enemy see you sweat. FFriendship says: Bring me your weakness and I will stand with you to help you be stronger.Thumbs up Sylvia,more grace
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Chichi
11/27/2015 11:14:10 pm
Awww thank you Ogechi xx
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Lisa Chiwira
11/21/2015 10:21:25 pm
Please tell me that's the front of your door, it's very picturesque 😍😍😍
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Chichi
11/27/2015 11:14:38 pm
Haahahaa I wish... Xx
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Nada
11/24/2015 12:24:21 pm
Lovely post !! :)
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Chichi
11/27/2015 11:14:59 pm
Thank you dear xx
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